One participant indicated, (30 years old, female, heterosexual, living in Sydney), ‘I’ve never cried this much before

One participant indicated, (30 years old, female, heterosexual, living in Sydney), ‘I’ve never cried this much before

One participant (female, heterosexual, 30 years old, living in Sydney) indicated:

This is the beginning of what we term the jagged love cycle, where the majority of participants became trapped in a cyclical loop. This involved downloading dating apps (sometimes multiple apps), vigorously swiping, matching, starting multiple chats (with low level personal investment), becoming quickly bored or exhausted with the process and their matches, deleting the dating apps, and then after approximately two weeks of experiencing FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) and loneliness, re-downloading the apps. The cycle would then begin again and occurred on repeat for several months during the lockdown period. Many participants recognised this cycle to some degree, particularly the ‘down time’ and would talk about being ‘on a break from dating apps’ (21 years of age, heterosexual, female, living in Sydney). However, they found it hard to pinpoint the reason for the loop, or the loop itself. The cycle itself, and the emotions experienced, were heightened–high-highs and low-lows were described almost side-by-side. Leggi tutto “One participant indicated, (30 years old, female, heterosexual, living in Sydney), ‘I’ve never cried this much before”